Think about the last time you felt a negative emotion---like stress, anger, or frustration. What was going through your mind as you were going through that negativity? Was your mind cluttered with thoughts? Or was it paralyzed, unable to think?
The next time you find yourself in the middle of a very stressful time, or you feel angry or frustrated, stop. Yes, that’s right, stop. Whatever you’re doing, stop and sit for one minute. While you’re sitting there, completely immerse yourself in the negative emotion.
Allow that emotion to consume you. Allow yourself one minute to truly feel that emotion. Don’t cheat yourself here. Take the entire minute---but only one minute---to do nothing else but feel that emotion.
When the minute is over, ask yourself, “Am I wiling to keep holding on to this negative emotion as I go through the rest of the day?”
Once you’ve allowed yourself to be totally immersed in the emotion and really fell it, you will be surprised to find that the emotion clears rather quickly.
If you feel you need to hold on to the emotion for a little longer, that is OK. Allow yourself another minute to feel the emotion.
When you feel you’ve had enough of the emotion, ask yourself if you’re willing to carry that negativity with you for the rest of the day. If not, take a deep breath. As you exhale, release all that negativity with your breath.
想下你最近一次感受到的消極情緒，例如壓力，憤怒或挫折。當你處于那種消極情緒時你在想些什么?是充滿了混亂的思緒?還是陷于麻木，無法思考?
下次當你發現自己處于非常緊張的狀態時，或是你感到氣憤或受挫時，停下來。是的，對，停下來。不管你在做什么，停下來坐上一分鐘。坐著的時候，讓自己完全沉浸在那種消極情緒之中。
讓那種消極情緒吞噬你，給自己一分鐘的時間去真切地體會那種情緒，不要欺騙自己。花整整一分鐘的時間 – 但只有一分鐘 – 去體會那種情緒，別的什么也不要做。
當一分鐘結束時，問自己：“我是否想在今天余下的時間里繼續保持這種消極情緒?”
一旦你允許自己完全沉浸在那種情緒當中并真切體會到它，你就會驚奇地發現那種情緒很快就消失了。
如果你覺得還需要點時間來保持那種情緒，沒關系，再給自己一分鐘的時間去體會它。
如果你覺得自己已經充分體會了那種情緒，那就問自己是否愿意在今天余下的時間里繼續保持這種消極情緒。如果不愿意，那就深呼吸。呼氣的時候，把所有的消極情緒都釋放出去。
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